MY CHILD / SELMA FLYNN BOBBO.MEMORY-OF.COM (friend) "MY child
On the day God took you
I thought that I would die
I wondered where the time went?
I asked alot of whys??
With people all around me
I felt alone inside
From all their words of comfort,
I couldn't seem to hide, I thought I might be dreaming
That I'd wake and find you here,
I thought "This can't be happening."
As I wiped another tear.
On the day that you were laid to rest
My heart broke yet again,
I wondered if the pain would end,
But mostly, I wondered when??
It's hard to be without you,
At times the days seem long,
Sometimes I just sit crying,
When there's really nothing wrong.
I wish we'd had more time,
Before your life was done.
I hope your resting peacefully,
My precious child,
DEAR MOMMY / SELMA FLYNN BOBBY MOM (friend) Dear Mommy
When you wonder the meaning of life and love
Know that I am with you.Close your eyes and feel me kissing youIn the gentle breeze across your cheek.
When you begin to doubt
that you shall ever see me again,
Quiet your mind and hear me.I am in the whisper of the heavens
Speaking of your love.
When you lose your idenity,
When you question who you are,
and where you are going,
Open your heart and see me.
I am the twinkle in the stars
smiling down upon you,
Lighting the path for your journey.
When you awaken each morning
not remembering your dreams,
But feeling content and serene
Know that I am with you
Filling your nights with thoughts of me.
When you linger in the remnant pain,
Wholeness seeming so unfamiliar,
Think of me.
Know that I am with you
Touching you through shared tears
of a gentle friend
Easing the pain .
As the sunrise illuminates the desert sky
In that breathtaking brilliance,
awaken your spirit.
Think of our time together,
all too brief, but ever brilliant.
When you are certain of us together,
When you are certain of your destiny,
Know that God created that moment
in time, just for us.
I am with you always.
Just missing you! / Brandy Besonen Hey just sitting here thinking about you like always. The kids and I spent the weekend at Cedar Point Halloweekends sure wish you could of been with us, you would of had fun. Your mom put new pics. of the kids and I on the websites hope you like um well got to help Pheniox with his homework but iI love ya bunches and sure wish I could spend these long fall nights with you.
Love Ya, Bran, Pheniox, Trinity
thinking of you x / Kelly BALDRY (friend x ) Hi there budd, the days are getting colder and the dark nights are setting in, it seems as the my life is flying by now & i think thats all down to counting the minutes, hours, days, weeks & months. I miss having Joe here with me but look forward to joining you both xxx kelly
miss you / Brandy Besonen Just wanted to say I am missing you Love you xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxooxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxooxoxoxoxoxoxoxox
You are never forgotton / Brandy Besonen ((girlfriend/once fiance) )
Hey there I dont even know where to start, I finally got my computer going again so I could finally get on here and let you know you are never forgotten and are on my mind everyday. Thanks to your wonderful mother for making a wonderful place for everyone to express there feeling and thoughts to you. Sorry Pat that I have'nt been by since mothers day I just have a busy busy schedule and things have not been so great for me lately, but I drive by about 2 times a week when visiting my mom she lives not far from u now so I will try to stop real soon I miss you guys alot and sure wish I could see you more.
Dear Budd,
Since you have been gone it has taken me awhile to try to go on with my love life and realize I cant live alone 4-ever, I had tried dating for awile and gave up, I even almost got married to someone just because I thought planning a wedding would be fun and help me feel better about myself. I waited almost 2 years to become in a serious relationship. I now have a beautiful baby girl and Her name is Trinity, Pheniox is getting so big he is now 5 and started kindergarten this year sure wish you could of been there, you may not have been his father but while you were around you treated him as your own son. I show him pictures of you and tell him about you, although he was so small when you were around that he cannot remember you, but he tells me that you must of been really nice to us and says to me mommy u still love him dont you? it is strange how a 5 year old can see that already but he is apretty smart boy and can tell. We visit you about twice a month and play the song by Ginuine that you always played for me when I got mad at you or when you wanted me to feel special. You Budd put a mager mark in my life everyone I see or talk to I compare to you but it has been a long road of dead ends because know one can make me feel as wonderful and happy as I was when I was with you. My daughters father and I split up, I recently started talking to a new guy and the only reason I even gave him a chace was because when I looked into his eyes fo r the first time I thought I was looking at you with those big beautiful blue eyes. His name is Scott he seems to be a great guy and sometimes I think U sent him here to protect me. I figured since you probably have been watching over all of us and seen some of the horrible things that have been happening in my life you sent him to me to protect me, He is a sheriff and has help me to face reality that I have to learn to be happy with some one since I cant have you, I know I have you in my heart always and not a day or even an hour goes by where I dont think of you.
I visited you today and played your song to me about 10 times and sat next to you as I cried. I placed a pumpkin and aghost there for you so you are already for the fall and halloween I drew a face on the pumpkin for you to its not a great face but I am sure you like it. well I have to pick pheniox up from school soon so I will talk to ya soon love you always and miss you bunches.
Ps I hope to go to florida again here soon hope you will tag along again because I sure had a great time with you there and have lots of great memories there with you, I visit where you proposed to me everytime I go down there which you know is often sure wish we could walk along the beach together even though it was embarassing that you left your socks on so no one could see your feet, or you just buried them in the sand. Your feet were not that ugly but it was a funny thing to watch you try to hide them in the sand. I love you and will chat with ya soon.
Love 4-ever and always, Bran
a flower for budd x / Kelly Baldry (joe's mum xxx ) Hi ther Budd just wanted to send you a flower to let you know im thinking about you Kelly xxx
budd x / Kelly Baldry (friend) hi there budd its me again kelly, im going to see a physic medium in the near future and hope i get to hear from joe so i was wondering if you could have a word in his ear as joe has a slight hearing problem so sometimes he dosen't hear what i say, and i wouldn't mind if i hear from you too budd. i look forward to the day when i can be with joe again and get to meet you budd and thank you for looking after my joe, please tell joe i love him so much. love you too budd kelly xxx
See you in my dreams!! / Crystal Keister (Childhood friend ) Hey baby! It's Crystal!! Crazy Stephanie just told me about this site tonight, and you know I had to come and drop you a line! Miss you so much, and the late night conversations on "our block", S. Richardson. So many nights you have been in my dreams, and I cry when I wake up and realize, that is the closet I will come to seeing your face. I I know that even though you are not here physically, that you will always watch over me and take care of me, just like you did all those years when we were growing up! I Love You. P.S. To this day, I still smile when I think about Stephanie falling through the snow this past Christmas when we came to see you. LOL
sweet angel Budd / Marlene Bohn (visitor) Dear Patricia thank-you for your kind words. The caring n love you portrayed is so thoughtful. I truly understand ur pain we both walking in these footsteps. One cannot take a pill to take the pain from a broken heart u live with the pain forever. As, Erics mother I love him unconditionally n prayed to the Lord above that my two sons never go before me My prayers went unanswered. Last nite when I saw u were from Ohio I had to lite a candle so u would know I felt your heartache n lost of your loving son Budd. Reach out touch my hand I too will be by your side when you need a friend to listen My prayers n thoughts r for you to find comfort n peace. I know our loving sons Budd n Eric r friends hangin ,chillin, n thankful we have met. Budd is so handsome a smile so geniune looks so fun-loving n laid back much like Eric. Fondly love Marlene Bohn
From An Angel Child / Mom (Mother)
Mom, please listen to me As I take the time to write I see parents struggling daily Their pain is such a fight
All of us who have gone on And left the rest of you behind We're OK Mom, I promise Heaven is beautiful and God is kind
You used to tell me that one day God would call and take you home You told me you'd make me strong So I would stand tall when alone
But things happen sometimes Mom That does not go in our plans I wasn't scared, Mom When God held out His Hand
I didn't want to leave you I didn't have time to say good-bye When the Angels said, "Come with us" There wasn't time to question why
I've watched you daily, Mom It hurts to see you cry I don't want you to be unhappy Just because we didn't get to say good-bye
Tell the others what I'm telling you So many parents need to know That Earth was just a lay-over We had another place to go
I know you miss me, Mom I know your heart is broken in two But God really needed me Because my earthly life was through
I'm always alongside you I smile and touch your hair I whisper" Mom, I love you" You just can't see me there
I'm the one who gently touches you On your shoulder when you're sad I'm happy now that you finally found God again, and you're no longer mad
Tell the parents, Mom, for me That all of us kids are okay God made plans for our lives When He called us home that day
I love you, Mom, I always will And remember I'm not far away We're going to be together When God calls out your name.
birthday boy x / Kelly Baldry (joes mumx ) hello budd happy birthday. today make sure you and joe have best party ever with all the angel girls and boys wish i could be there with you both but maybe one day. send your mum lots of love and kisses as today must be hard for her but at the same time its a special day for her. hope you catch my birthday card and kisses kelly xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
"The Warrior" - this is from a beautiful picture you bought for me. / Momma
"The Warrior"
This morning my thoughts traveled along To a place in my life where days have since gone Beholding an image of what I used to be As visions were stirred and God spoke to me.
He showed me a Warrior, a soldier in place Positioned in Heaven, yet I saw not the face I watched as the Warrior fought enemies That came from the darkness with destruction for me.
I saw as the Warrior would dry away tears As all of Heaven's Angels hovered so near
I saw many wounds on the Warrior's face Yet weapons of warefare were firmly in place.
I felt my heart weeping, my eyes held so much As God let me feel the Warrior's prayer touched I thought "how familiar" the words that were prayed The prayers were like lightening that would never fade.
I said to God "please, the Warrior's name" He gave me no reply, he chose to refrain I asked" Lord, who is broken that they need such prayer?" He showed me an image of myself standing there.
Bound by confusion, lost and alone I felt prayers of the Warrior carry me home I asked "Please show me Lord, this Warrior so true" I watched and I wept, for Mother...the Warrior was you!
It breaks my heart sometimes to read that picture Son... that I could have fought this last fight for you...I love and miss you so much.
Wanted to let ya know what's new / Vikki Perkins (Friend) Hey Budd,
I just wanted to let you know whats new with me. I finally got married in March I forgot to mention that to the last time I spoke with you. Can you believe that the one that was never going to settle did finally did and I couldn't be more happier with the way it is going too. I know it's crazy but it was meant to be you know my husband from school and you know he was way better than all the other loser I had in my life at that time!!!
Hey I know your birthday is coming up soon you better party it up just like old times don't go soft on me just cuz you are getting older now you need to show the other angels how to party like no other one person could do. I don't know if I will be able to tell you Happy Birthday on the exact day so I am telling you now HAPPY BIRTHDAY BUDDMAN!!!!
I hope you aren't causing a whole lot of trouble up there. You know like you did down here sike just kidding.. But for real stay the same and keep ya head with big and bright smile on your face cuz I wanna see you smiling all the way down here. Man I hope you know just how much you really are loved and missed from all your family and friends. We all have so many memories of you and they are all so different from each other but at the same time everybody can probably picture you doing all the stuff that we are saying about you!!!! You did alot a stuff with everybody but you were always the same person and that's what we LOVE AND MISS about ya!!
Well I am going let you go back to running after the angels but always remember the angels you have down here that love ya so give us some of the charming love back by letting your star shine bright on us and give us that charming smiling!!!!
KEEP YA HEAD UP BABY BOY AND REMEMBER THAT I LOVE AND YOUR WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY HEART AND MY PRAYERS!!!
THANKS FOR ALL THE GOOD TIMES AND MOSTLY THANKS FOR BEING A WONDERFUL FRIEND!!!
VIKKI PERKINS (a.k.a)
budd x / Kelly Baldry (joes mum ) hi budd we are having a bar b que at joeys garden on saturday next. there will be lots off champagne music and people and i know you and joey will be there because you both know how to party. i will have a drink for you and joey and take lots of pictures im sure you and joe will find a way to let us know you are there so i will keep my eyes and ears open .take good care of joey for me budd i love and miss him so much just as your mum loves and misses you. see you at tha barbie. kelly
our sons xxx / Kelly Baldry (joeys mum ) today the sun is out here in england and i have this feeling it is all down to budd and joe it has been so bad the weather over here since joey died, so maybe this is there way of saying joe is fine, probably having better time than us down here. all my love to you all and especially budd and joe. kelly xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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